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  • Varanasi – The best place to be at the end of the world

    According to the Mayans, we were at the end of the world in 2012. I am not sure how that theory works, but it got me wondering. If I could choose the place to be at the end of the world, where would it be? Would it be, the beautiful little town of Groningen in The Netherlands? Will it be the kinky, crazy city of Amsterdam? Or would it be Singapore, the place I was born and the place where I spent most of my life in.

    Nope, it’s none of them.

    If the Mayans are correct, then I’ve got to get myself on a flight to Delhi, and take a 12 hour train ride to this place called Varanasi.

    Varanasi

    The ancient city of India,

    The River Ganges

    Varanasi India River Ganges
    Washing clothes by the river bank

    Varanasi is located in India’s second most poorest state, Uttar Pradesh. The city is simply, a mess. If you thought Chandi Chowk in Old Delhi was difficult to navigate, the city of Varanasi takes you even more aback. The streets are swamped with portholes, masses of people cling on to each other, and trishaws swerve dangerously by the edges of uncovered drains, dispensing water with an odd shade of green. As the fading sun sinks beyond the horizon, spots of florescent lights and kerosene lamps light up the chaotic city. In a blur of the moment, you catch sight of a funeral procession – a group of men carrying a covered body on a wooden plank, to be incinerated and returned back to the creator of life, the river.

    Strangely, the very redeeming quality about this place is the same river, the River Ganges, which rushes through the ancient city of Varanasi in its purest form. It’s the throbbing pulse of the city, the sustaining force of thousands and thousands of people who head there to wash garments of all shapes, sizes and colours, take a religious bath, or scatter the ashes of their loved ones into the holy river.

    I spent 10 hours of my life in Varanasi. It was a stopover in between the border of Nepal and Delhi. It’s been four years, but the memories still linger. The dobies (wash-wallas) hard at work, scrubbing and stomping on the brightly coloured garments. The uncanny smell of FAB detergent floating by as the sun rises. The rising morning sunlight bouncing off the rippling muscles of a shirtless doby who is flinging a t-shirt with all his strength against the wooden scrubbing board.

    As you trot on by to the next ghat, you’d see brightly coloured flags flapping in the wind. By the side of the river bank, you’d see hairy chested men untangling themselves from their shirts, off to take a holy bath in the water. (The women bathe in their sarees.) Till this day, I can’t fathom how can the water be bath-ready when 500 metres away, soap suds and garments are floating aimlessly on the river’s surface.

    Then comes the highlight of your trip to Varanasi. It is The Reason why you ever came. Varanasi is probably the only place in the world where dead bodies are placed on wooden crates, doused in oil and set alight, surrendering the dead back to the hands of the Ganga. You’d meet unfriendly touts who will tell you that it cost money to watch these rituals – just pretend to be ignorant and utter jabberish to them. You could observe from afar, and it’s very worth the sight.

    Now as the world ends, I wanna perch of the steps of a ghat. A white chariot may come down from the heavens, or everything could just turn black, but I will be glad to be in the presence in an ancient place where humanity is so raw. The place where life and death flows along the same vein. where the orchestra of humanity reaches its crescendo. End of the world or not, Varanasi always serves to tell me that we could spend our lives trying to get rich, to look good and be successful. But eventually, we’ll have to return to nature. And it will be always the same. Past, present or future.

    Varanasi ashes ghats
    Ashes from the burning of wooden crates
    varanasi ghats logs
    Logs for burning bodies
    varanasi ghats
    Freshly Washed, hung to dry
    varanasi cremation ghat
    Looks Solemn, these buildings
    varanasi ghat clothes
    An interesting “clothes line”
    varanasi ghat washing
    Rippling muscles?
    river ganges varanasi
    River Ganges – Birds, flying
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    Activities by the River

    Varanasi ghat
    Afternoon chat

     

    varanasi cow dung cakes
    Cow Dung Cakes
    varanasi ghats
    Things have never change, it seems
    varanasi clothes dry
    Organised Chaos
    varanasi ghat clothes dry
    Clean to dry on the steps?
    varanasi ghat goats
    Friends? Lovers?
    Varanasi Phebe Bay
    Me, and Lonely Planet India
    varanasi kites
    Kite Flying
    Big Fans
    Varanasi ghats steps
    Shops, they thrive everywhere in India
    varanasi ghats
    Beautiful
    varanasi river ganges bathe
    Just bathed
    Varanasi Phebe Bay
    That’s me. Feeling feverish but looking happy.
    Varanasi ghat clothes dry
    Please help yourself?
    Varanasi Ghats sadhus
    The Sadhus (Holy Men)
    Varanasi Phebe Bay
    After that eventful border crossing from Nepal, this is heaven.
    Varanasi ghat boat
    In my stationary boat
    varanasi cremation ghat
    Somebody shouts, “No photo of Cremation Ghat!”

    I dedicated this post to Friend T. Who accompanied me on a arduous journey here, and braved the cold for 12 hours back to Delhi. Thank you.

    I had a deep seated desire to visit the ancient city, and I am glad I have done so.

  • Ten good reasons why you should go to India

     

    India travel street children
    The children of India

    India is not exactly everyone’s destination. She’s like a crazy, temperamental lover that you can never understand – yet being with her brings out the person that you never thought you were. When you are together, you learn that rules are meant to be broken, and the most beautiful conversation is said with a smile, rather than an avalanche of words.

    Personally, I feel that everyone should go to India. If you hate it on the first try, go again the next time. If you get punched in the eye during the second time, harden your heart and return again. If you still haven’t fallen in love with her on your tenth trip, then I guess, you have the prerogative to stop reading my blog.

    Note: If you’re thinking of working in India, the PAN card might come in useful – click here to Apply for a PAN Card.

    There are ten great reasons why you should go to India. You may not agree with all, but if any one of them agrees with you, you should pack your bag and hit the airport.

    1. Your main goal of travelling is NOT for a massage, shopping for clothes or good food.

    If there’s a place that doesn’t have these three things, chances are it’s India. The food in India is somewhat exquisite – you will need hardened taste buds and a little courage. Do take note that a “Delhi Belly” (diarrhea)  is very common, so come prepared with rolls of toilet paper.

    I love buying books and cheap lip balm there, but there’s really nothing else to shop for. Unless you are looking for a Sari or Salwar Kameez.

    2. You are tired of seeing fellow Singaporeans or your own countrymen.

    I am not sure about you, but I detest seeing my fellow countrymen during overseas trips. I have no wish to see suaku Singaporeans haggling at bazaars or talking very loudly as if they know the place very well. Since you are paying so much money for the air ticket, why not get an entirely different experience from that at home?

    3. You want to get into a fight, but you’re afraid of getting caught.

    In most of my experiences with Indian men, there is a higher tendency for them to get into fights. Sorry to generalise, I mean hotblooded young Indians not the mature kind (like you my dear reader). Simply scold his mother, father or girlfriend, and he is bound to make the first move. Duck quickly, and show off those moves you have learnt from National Service (applicable only to Singaporean guys).

    Also, cops in India are willing to look away if a high valued rupee note has been tucked into the breast pocket of their uniform.

    4. You have a lack of cash but need to travel badly.

    Food, accommodation and transportation are very cheap in India, if you don’t mind the lack of comfort. The barest rooms go for under SGD10 a night – (that’s not even a dorm but a full room with a fan and personal toilet). Getting from state to state takes time, but a train ticket that costs less than SGD10 will bring you hundreds of kilometres in sleeper class.

    5. You are facing burnout from your job.

    Burnouts happen when an activity that stresses you out happens repeatedly. A trip to India will stress you out in different ways, ensuring that you forget most of the unhappiness back at home.

    There are some places in India which will allow you to calm yourself down, rest, meditate and think about your next steps.

    6. You want an uninterrupted annual leave.

    If you hate being bothered by emails and phone calls during your annual leave, tell the office you are going to India. It’s difficult to get a local SIM card there, and there is a common perception that things in India don’t work the way you want them to be. Just like the phones and Wifi connection. 😉

    7. You are trying to escape from something or someone.

    This has never happened to me but I can assure you that it’s pretty easy to lose yourself in a bustling city like Delhi or Mumbai.

    8. You need bragging rights.

    If the rest of your peers are always going on about how awesome Europe is, shut them up with talk of India. And your stories will be sure to be more interesting than theirs. : )

    9. You have nothing else to do.

    If you are unemployed, retired or have too much time on your hands, go to India. India’s the window to the world, and you stand to learn about more things than you ever did, holing up in that small apartment of yours in Singapore.

    10. You are searching for love.

    India has its fair share of hunks and babes, but let me clarify that “love” doesn’t mean the romantic sort of french kissing and holding hands. When I mean love, it could mean loving a place, country, or a group of random people that touches your heart in many different ways. And that is for you to discover.

    Good luck.

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    india travel flooding
    Experience an occasional flooding
    India travel public bathing
    Bathing in public
    India travel food
    Try out the delectable Indian cuisine
    India travel cows road
    Meet a peaceful cow by the road
    India travel trishaws school bus
    See how trishaws act as school buses
    India travel Indian men
    Say hi to a topless, hunky Indian man
  • An introduction to.. The Travelling Squid

    In case you’re wondering why this blog, The Travelling Squid  is named after a Squid, here’s why.  In the Malay language, “Sotong” is the word for squid. And according to the Coxford Singlish dictionary, “sotong” is used to describe someone as rather inept or in a world of his own. Presumably, it comes from the squid’s emission of a cloud of ink, hence the popular phrase, “blur like sotong.”

    And that essentially describes me, Phebe Bay, the 19 year old Singaporean traveller who survived a 6 month long trip to India and then travelled the word, sometimes alone and sometimes with friends. There are many things I learnt the hard way – from getting a brain freeze after washing my hair in negative temperatures in Kashmir, to improvising socks for gloves in the cold winter’s day of Vietnam, or being a bed bug victim after a solo trip to India.

    I am in no position to give expert advice about travelling, but I believe everyone can and should travel. Be it in groups or even alone. You may have a bad sense of direction (me!), a low EQ, or may be a stickler for cleanliness and hygiene but as long as you have some common sense, (and wads of local currency), you should be able to survive.

    Travelling brings you closer with (and sometimes further apart from) your companions and even helps you build friendships across the world. But most importantly, it brings alot more meaning to the little lives we have grown so accustomed to.

    The seasoned traveller will know, that travelling teaches us about humility, graciousness and patience, and cannot be taught through any top corporate training programmes or incentive trips.

    I hope the tips and tricks section will help you with your travelling plans. I have also shared a couple of tales – some good, some bad, and some just plain hilarious.

    Travelling awakens the dreamers, thinkers and believers in us. And I hope this blog can help you do that, in some way or another.